EPISODE 3

Who Are You Without the Title?

Who are you when you can no longer introduce yourself by your job, title, business, or role?

For many of us, what we do slowly becomes part of how we define who we are.

So when a career ends, a business changes, the children grow up, or a familiar role no longer fits, it can feel like we’ve lost more than a title.

It can feel like we’ve lost ourselves.

In Episode 3 of What’s Your Ex?, I explore what remains when the label falls away—and why losing a title may actually help you reconnect with the person underneath it.

IN THIS EPISODE

Titles can give us structure, identity, and a sense of belonging.

We become the business owner. The executive. The caregiver. The person everyone relies on.

And after enough years, it can become difficult to separate what we do from who we are.

That’s why a change in role can sometimes leave us feeling lost or even invisible.

In this episode, I talk about separating your identity from your title and looking more closely at the qualities that existed before the role—and will still be there after it changes.

We talk about:

  • Why titles can become deeply connected to identity and belonging

  • Why changing roles can leave you feeling lost or invisible

  • How to separate who you are from what you do

  • A simple way to describe yourself without mentioning your career

  • Why knowing who you are underneath the label can make a pivot feel less frightening

I also share something I discovered during my own business pivot:

The title was never the whole person.

My persistence, love, courage, responsibility, and ability to show up for others were there before the role—and they didn’t disappear when the role changed.

HI, I'M MARILIE!

I'm Marilie Daniels, creator, entrepreneur and host of What's Your Ex? podcast.

I create conversations and practical resources for women 40+ navigating reinvention, income, and what comes next.

Because starting over doesn't mean everything behind you disappears.

You get to bring what you've learned with you.

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